End of the day
A few minutes at night for an inventory of your parts: which ones showed up today, when you were Self-led, and when you were not.
5 steps, drawn from 3 books on IFS.
Checked: each step was read against the book passages it rests on, and stays inside them.
Read every step first
- An inventory, at the end of the day. At the end of the day, you can take a few minutes for an inventory of your parts. It can help you stay in touch with your inner system from one day to the next.
- Who showed up. Which parts showed up today? Write down the ones you noticed, by name or by what they did.
- When you were Self-led. When were you Self-led today? A moment with some calm, curiosity or clarity counts, even a small one.
- And when you were not. And when were you not? That is a time a part took the lead. Write it down the same way, as something you noticed.
- That is the inventory. If a part stood out today, you might check in with it on another day.